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Abstinence isn't a realistic or appealing option for many singles. Even if you're seeking a committed relationship, casual sex is likely to happen along the way.

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If your answer is 'yes,' then you're in the clear emotionally. You are able to separate the act of sex with a deeper emotional attachment.

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If your Whats wrong with some mutual nsa fun is no, don't do it! You are clearly hoping for something more than this person might be able or willing to give you. Engaging in sex with someone you're not in a relationship with is a gamble, and you shouldn't gamble unless you can afford to lose.

One likely scenario is you are hoping that your casual relationship might turn into something more serious. This is not unheard of, but going into it wishing and hoping for that is a bad strategy. You must learn to listen to what people tell you - and if their words and or actions are telling you they want to keep it casual -- believe them.

If the sex in question is with Professional man in need friend or Whats wrong with some mutual nsa fun else who is likely going to be a continued presence in your life, modify this question to say: If this person tells me they are no longer willing or available to have sex with me, will I be OK with that?

The same principle applies - if your friend with benefits falls in love with someone else next week, how will that make you feel?

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Better you find out now then after you have slept with him and your feelings are even more pronounced. You owe it to yourself and to your partner to find out if you're on the same page.

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Even with all of the education we have in this day and age about STDs, to say nothing of pregnancy, unprotected sex is still the norm for many. If you are about to engage in sex with someone who refuses to use protection, do not do it! This is a no-no even if you are a woman on the pill or some other form of birth control and your risk of pregnancy is low. She has any new sex partner take the tests before sex. And they still use condoms. Talk about being able to articulate your boundaries!

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We often focus on the physical risks of sexual activity, but the emotional risks are just as high. For one, if you are using casual partners as a way to feel less witg or to compensate for the intimacy you are seeking, there is a high likelihood you're holding yourself back.

Whats wrong with some mutual nsa fun is a leap of faith to believe that you can have the love you are seeking. Using casual partners as a crutch is a signal to your unconscious self Web cams montana sex to the universe that you are willing to settle for less.

If you're willing to settle for less, that's usually what you get. If you are continually getting involved with people with whom a long-term relationship is not a possibility, you are in a pattern that is not going to lead to the relationship you want.

This is one of the biggest hazards of casual sex. It can be a sign your actions are out of alignment with your true desires.

I have no moral objections to consenting adults having as Whats wrong with some mutual nsa fun sex as they like with whomever they choose. However, as a love coach, I work with many singles whose sex lives are in direct conflict with the relationship they're looking for.

Nine times out of ten, my clients and I uncover multiple ways in which they're sabotaging themselves with casual sex. Of course there are no guarantees in romance.

Casual sex is not the only pitfall. We all know that not all committed relationships work out, either. But without that commitment -- that mutual desire to try to make it last -- you are taking an even bigger chance with your happiness.

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